— a guide by Laszlo Von Glitz, with added nagging from Lala… (but actually written by Lala…)
The process of writing a novel is an agonizing descent into hell for some writers. Self-doubt, rejection, and hours of solitary focus can make your beloved mate nigh-on unrecognizable. How can you save your relationship and your health during these trying times? The answers might surprise you. So, kind readers, buckle up and start taking notes…
1. Avoid sudden movements. Such as sneezing. Even if holding it in shatters your brain and puts your back out.
2. Avoid interrupting the writer‘s thought process by showing her how you just framed a pretty picture of her, by offering her coffee, or by stealing a snuggle. These are all capital offenses and will be rewarded with withering glances. Or screaming.
3. Talk in a low voice at all times. The novelist is skittish and prone to bolt.
4. Do not try to fix how the garbage bag has been placed in the garbage bin, even though pineapple juice is all over your hands as you go to remove it.
Lala: I did not throw those in there. You must have.
Laszlo. I just got here. You did. I’m holding them. They were in here.
Lala: Don’t criticize me! How am I supposed to have any confidence in my novel if you’re always criticizing me?
Lazlo sighs and goes to rinse out the bin, which also has some aged tuna at the bottom of it.
5. Do not take her out to a new restaurant… particularly a vegetarian restaurant (such as Candle at Broadway and 89th near her apartment). You will discover later in your intended-romantic evening that there are consequences to healthy eating. You will not see your novelist (you may hear her) for several hours due to these consequences.
Side note: By all means, do not attempt to get amorous. This could be fatal for you. Instead resign yourself to seeing this all night:
6. Do not attempt to hide.This can be construed as shirking, and may prompt extreme hostility from your novelist. You could lose an ear.
7. For god’s sake, act normal, and do not show your nervousness. Novelists can sense fear.
So there you have it, beloved readers and writers and still-living mates of writers: the way to handle a budding novelist as she crashes and burns against her own psyche. I don’t mean to suggest that being the mate of a writer is all skulking about. Sometimes it can be quite rewarding for you as well. Simply delete her manuscript one afternoon, when she’s not looking … and sit back and watch the fun! Sparks will really fly for you two.
That is all.
What are ya waiting for?
“Yes, funny bunny?”
“Did you touch my computer?”
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